Monday, April 16, 2018

For those in need a loving uplift

Dear you,

You are reading this today. because I am here to remind you that you are so beautiful!

You have been way too harsh on yourself lately.
Have you maybe even looked in the mirror and been disapproving of yourself and the body you have? Stop! Change that voice and be kind. Your body is your instrument that will take you anywhere in this life. Isn't that a magical thing? I wish you'd stop being so critical and realize your own personal beauty. There's nobody quite like you. You have brought a voice, personality and skills to this world that nobody owns like you do. Stop comparing yourself to those you think may have it better. For they have their own struggles as well. Even if you don't see them.

When was the last time that you really received a loving gesture? Maybe somebody around you has tried to compliment you recently and you shook it off because it made you feel uncomfortable.
You didn't even allow it to enter your heart. Maybe you mumbled a thank you hoping that the attention would be taken away from you.
I am here to tell you that you are deserving of that compliment.
Just start to think about your journey so far. 

You've been probably put through so much. You've been brave and faced your fears. You've survived through pain.  You've used obstacles as stepping stones to arrive here. I would like to take this opportunity to give you a hug.
To let you know that I have such compassion for you. I wish I could take your past hurt and throw it in a big bin.
I at least hope for you that your past hurt doesn't affect your present moment too much.
That you realize that you have learned valuable lessons in your life that aid you right now. And if you are struggling right now, I'd like to let you know that this too will pass. It may not be easy right now, but things do not stay like this forever. You have the inner strenght to make it through. Remember all that you have achieved so far.
Your small successes, your big wins. You are capeable of so much more than you think.
You can do the things you dream of. Nobody has proven you wrong and do not listen to those who shoot your dreams out of the sky.
See how that long term goal, divided into one single small step each day can bring you just where you need to be. You'd be amazed!
I'd like you to know that while change can be challenging, it can take you to the next level. One day you'll look back and all of a sudden feel like you are different from a while ago. You feel stronger and you don't even know how you conquered something. It's the funniest feeling. We are learning all the time as long as we are open to it.

And finally, if a friend disappears from your life it could be that it's for the best.
Sometimes you just outgrow each other, or the lesson has been learned. Even if you don't know exactly what that lesson is. Never part with a hateful heart, but thank that person for being your teacher. They may have taught you to forgive by doing you wrong. They may have taught you to stand up for yourself by testing your boundaries. Those are wonderful things to learn!

All my love to all of you who felt that you had to read this.
I hope you can enjoy your beautiful life!



  1. Aww thank you Bexa :)
    I just wanted to share an uplift with people.
    There's so many of us that have their daily struggles and I wanted to give this as a reminder that everything is going to alright :)

  2. Such a lovely, heart-warming post, thanks so much for sharing. The brought a smile to my face :) xx

  3. I am so glad it has made you smile.
    Exactly what I hope for those reading this .
    Thank you for taking your time to comment. It means a lot to me ^^

  4. I'd be lying if I said this didn't bring a tear to my eyes. Thank you for this post. I needed that!

    cabin twenty-four

  5. You are so welcome Eena! :) I realize that people need a boost sometimes. So, that's why I thought I'd share this.
    Thanks for taking your time and energy to comment to. It means so much!

  6. This is such a lovely lovely post- the world needs more things like this! You’ll definitely have helped people with this for sure.
    Hayley x

    1. Thank you hayley. I am so glad you enjoyed this :)

  7. That certainly was an uplifting post - thank you for that. We all need reminding of these things every so often <3


    1. awww thanks jenny :) I really wanted to share some love! <3

  8. I wish I could tap a like button on this! 😍 this is beautiful and thank you for such lovely words on body positivity! Sometimes we really do need a reminder to not be so hard on ourselves and to embrace our beauty both outside and in. Great post hun! ♥️💌

  9. thank you so much Lena <3 I am so happy that you enjoyed it.